Tonight I want you to come
And bring me flowers of a pen
To rewrite what it was before
From our love without the end.
Tonight I want you to be me
As I have never been before
And write me stories on my heart
About your love without an end.
Tonight I want you in my thoughts
To keep my dream into my life
With gentle voice of my desire
To stay with me, I will require.
We invented words so we can explain ourself better, at first only to make distinction between “give me a stone” or “stone you”. We have improved our words so much that we need sometimes dictionaries to understand them.
Today words are the bridge between your thoughts and what others can see in you. Nobody really know how you feel or what you think if you don’t describe it in words. And if we could not have said any word, we certainly find other ways to express ourselves. But we are not. And many times we forget to use words. We forget to say if we are sad, happy, worried or frightened. And most of the time we forget to say “I love you” or ” I miss you” even when we feel that way. And just like that, a moment will come in which between what we feel and what we express will be a difference so large that those around us will get confuse. They will not understand us and together we will suffer. And all this is happening because we forget that our thoughts don’t speak for us or no one can hear them. So let’s talk and write words, even if sometimes we speak before we think, because only using these words we will we be able to understand us better . And if we use offensive words let’s not forget that there are also pardon words.
Remember always that you need tu use words to be heard.
Living in this vast of energies and thoughts people are looking for advises. We all try to help our children or friends with our advice about life but are we allowed to give them? Everyone is different and has his own path and what is good for us may not be good for others. Everything you say is influenced by what your life has taught you. How we know what’s best for them?
One the other hand because we are not emotional involve we use only logic when we give advice. It’s easy to tell a friend to leave his partner because he/she cheated. The worst advice is when we give advice without having experienced those problems. Or we were not even able to solve those problems in our life.
I wonder how you would need to talk to people to not influence them with your advice. Even God is guiding us and let us to figure out the answer. Sometimes the best advice for a friend is just to listen and let him/her to open his/hers heart and to ease his/hers soul.
Adrian B 