Normality or dynamic equilibrium

Since we are born we are overwhelmed with rules that guide us to be normal. I mean we were taught when is normal to feel warm, cold or when is normal to cry or laugh. It is only after we grow up and we getting smarter we begin to realize that normality is a condition in which our soul perceives their surrounding as a result of subsequent events or is determined by our society. The condition of our human feelings are at the root of  our normality and at the same time, these feelings, are developing our “normal” boundaries or standards . In fact, normality is like a state of dynamic equilibrium. For every soul in this world this equilibrium is different but because of the dynamic we can find a very similar normality between these souls. This similarity will keep our integrity preserve and in order to survive we have to develop our normality so we can integrate in our society.

I realize that getting out of this normality result in the isolation of individuals and most of the time the society are calling them nerds or losers. Unfortunately a few societies nowadays are trying to repudiate these “extremes” and forcing them to change so they become part of their normality. Fortunately we owe our life style to these extremes of normality. I found it strange that most of us are trying to be perfect in a normal society.

I consider that in the world we have over 6 billion normality circumstances in more than a hundred different societies and we criticize or trying to change these normality just because we consider ours better.Is it right or wrong? Continue reading

Strange thought

In a normal world there’s love, but a different kind of love, different from the one we know. A love without a dependent love that respects the freedom and privacy of each other and most of all his/her decisions, his/her free will.
There are some people who leave and not coming back. We are not talking of physical death. We talk about life on Earth. There are people who feel inside that they have to leave, to remove them self’s from certain places or persons. While most of us are used to live a life together with the same person on the same places.
It’s said that, when you change inside the outside is changing too. Often we call selfish these people who go and leave everything behind. But we don’t know what it’s in their soul. Can they have more love for us than we may know? To be altruist it doesn’t have to mean ,to oppress your spiritual happiness and listen to your intuition, just to please your love one.
If a man is happy in a place with the same people his entire life, another one would not. If a man who’s happy to know people and to communicate with them we say his full of love. That doesn’t mean that if a man is shy he doesn’t love people. Perhaps he loves them more than the first one. So we can not judge a man after our own narrow views. We all have different experiences on our life path.
We are on Earth to find our happiness I guess this means we listen to our intuition. Then whatever happens, whatever people say, no matter how selfish you look in their eyes you have to find peace in your soul.